Every time the holiday season makes its way back around, it always seems to get a little bit lonelier for single ladies. It’s like clockwork; the moment that love is in the air, the more single we all start to feel.
But this year, we’re not moping around and longing for love. Instead, we’re digging a little deeper, finding love within ourselves, and showing our appreciation for the women we’re becoming! National Singles Day is dedicated to the beauty and empowerment of being single. It’s time to shower yourself with the love you desire, and we’ll show you exactly how to do it.
Self-Gifting is Self-Care
Think about the last time you opened a gift from someone who loves you. Whether it was an old partner, your mom, or your grandma, you were probably feeling pretty special and cherished at that moment. As cliché as it sounds, it never really matters what the gift is; it’s usually the thought that matters the most.
The holiday season is always marketed towards gifts for others, but there’s not much mention of gifts for yourself. It’s probably because self-gifting is deemed as somewhat selfish. If guilt is what has stopped you from treating yourself to special gifts, think twice about the way you perceive self-love.
There’s no shame in self-gifting over here. The way we see it is that gifting is an act of love; in fact, it’s a love language! So why wouldn’t we treat ourselves with the same kindness that we’d show to others?
Different Ways to Treat Yourself
Since self-care looks different for everyone, it’s all about what it will take to pull you out of a negative headspace and make you feel empowered this Singles Day. For us, the answer is always lingerie. Not just to buy something on impulse, but to get dressed up for ourselves and feel good when we look in the mirror.
When you look good, you feel good. And that’s the type of energy we’re channeling this singles day! Since 2020 has been the year of staying at home, there’s no better way to pick yourself up than to wear a two-piece set around the house that flatters your figure and accentuates your most beautiful parts.
Leave the sweatpants for another day and throw on a lace babydoll and a matching g-string . An action as small as wearing something different can impact your mood more than you’d think. Made from the softest mesh material that hugs your curves in all of the right places, you’ll be just as comfortable as you would be in sweats but you’ll feel a lot sexier!
Since the stigma around buying lingerie for yourself tells women that looking sexy is only for someone else’s gaze, we’re here to remind you that lingerie is more than an alluring outfit. It’s also about tapping into your feminine power. Spend this Singles Day wearing and doing things that empower you.
Whether it’s grabbing a good book, a glass of wine, and curling up on the couch, or cooking a fancy dinner for yourself, treat yourself to some special gifts and an experience that you’ll never forget. At the end of the day, your most important relationship is with yourself, and until the right one comes along, consider yourself taken!